A selfish summer…
The upcoming months are going to be the most challenging of my life so far. I have pre – op diet, the op itself, and flying to Czech alone to have major surgery, I then have 2 weeks of liquid food and...
View ArticleThat’s how I wanna be…
After my dating predicament last week it finally hit me this weekend that what I want right now is to focus on me. It doesn’t matter if Brad Pitt proposes, or Gareth Gates asks for a date, the timing...
View ArticleIt’s oh so quiet….
Apologies for the lack of blogging lately. I’m never one of these people who is too busy to do anything, but this past week general life has just got in the way of my blogging duties. It’s shameful,...
View ArticleSurgery and the single girl…
Since I started this blog my relationship has changed, twice. My journey started as a singleton – kind of, back in June/July when my relationship had ended due to issues caused mostly by my weight, but...
View ArticleHe’s just not that into you….
So last night I finally put myself back into the world full of single men ( it’s a scary place ) and went on my first date in a year. I’ve been single for a few months now and started to talking to a...
View ArticleLooking good….but for who?
This will be a controversial post. I know this before I’ve even typed a word of content. I’ve recently been reading a marriage advice book. No I’ve not secretly got hitched over night, it was...
View ArticleDating games, risks and taking a chance on love
It’s been an interesting weekend to say the least. Let me start at the beginning, I’m single, I’ve been trying to meet people online to date. On Sunday I had a date “planned” with someone. By planned,...
View ArticleMan Vs Food
This weight loss business really does take over your life. Recently I was approached by a journalist who wanted to try and sell my story to the press. As part of the interview she asked my ex boyfriend...
View ArticleUnderneath your clothes…
As Shakira once sang, underneath your clothes is an endless story. Underneath the clothes of a person whose lost a lot weight there is an even bigger story, and there in lies the topic of todays post....
View ArticleThe weird and wonderful world of online dating…
*Apologies in advance for the rant…. but I really need to vent* Dating. It’s something we all have to do at some point in our lives, and it’s never easy. Often when someone is newly single their...
View ArticleLost for words….
I’ve been wanting to blog for a couple of days now but not quite sure what to say. It seems I’m at a loss for words, which never happens to me. This week I’ve been spending a bit of time with a new...
View ArticleWhen blogging becomes personal…
This blogging lark is sometimes harder than you expect it to be. I haven’t really blogged as much recently as I was doing, and reading a fellow bloggers first post back after a brief hiatus I realised...
View ArticleIt’s not a competition – the other woman, part 2
Relationships with men are often complicated. But it’s the relationships I have with other women that really confuse me. I don’t have many female friends. I think it’s because our insecurities and...
View ArticleBoys boys boys…. Cocktails and clubbing.
Clubbing. It’s something I haven’t done in YEARS. Literally. Which is probably the case for many people, but given I’m only 26 I often think that clubbing, bars, nights out drinking etc, should have...
View ArticleEverybody hurts, sometimes….
Love like you’ve never been hurt. It’s a motto I live by. And it backfires on me EVERY SINGLE TIME. I have been sort of seeing someone, but I didn’t mention too much because I didn’t want to jinx it....
View ArticleThe foundations of dating….
I’m the first to admit that in my time I’ve done my fair share of dating, usually online, and whilst I’m not afraid to admit I’m a little fussy ( read have high standards ) I usually give guys a...
View ArticleMr Right….?
So as promised, here is the post you’ve been waiting for. The one telling you all the gossip about the new man in my life. And so I’ll begin. We met almost a month ago now for a first date in a quiet...
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